VRchat disconnecting randomly, when a avatar is downloading or when something heavy on frames happens on screen

Now, it seems i have a problem with VRchat disconnecting randomly or when a avatar is downloading

heres the fixes I’ve tried so far,

-port forwarding

-Cloudflare WARP

now it could be my router but i have a stable download and upload speed of 900-1000 Mbps

also to note, I’m on ethernet and running steam link, ive tried differant versions of steam link, some better some worse but led eventually after 20 minutes ish disconnects or even disconnects steam link in the process. so i would like to know if there’s anything else i could do, ive been trying to fix this problem for like 2 months now. also sorry for the bad English

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also fast boot is disabled

i will also add the hardware and devices used idk if that helps:

Computer:

Ryzen 9 5900XT

RAM 32GB

RX 6800

Headset used with steam link is a meta quest 2

router is a Homehub 4000/GigaHub