Toggles only working client side

Hi I’m starting to go insane.
as the title states, toggles only work for me and no one else regardless of platform they are on.
Synced is checked.
I’ve tried creating the toggle normally with 2 (on/off) animations.
Didn’t work.
tried using the toggle creator in case I forgot how to make toggles or something.
Didn’t work.
I’ve tried VRCFury toggles.
Didn’t work.
I gave up on mesh toggles and tried to make it a dissolve instead.
still didn’t work.
I tried to just have a toggle turn off and on the Alpha of the material to toggle it.
still didn’t work.

I am really starting to think this a unity 2022 issue cause this never happened to me before.

some additional information.
I’m trying to FULLY toggle off every mesh.
There’s only 2, but i tried to make the animation effect both and effect only one. the problem persists in both instances.

having a similar issue like i put new cloth on the avatar it show on the project even on vrchat but for weird reason only for me (client side) tried to search around what the cause but no idea what it is and even a friend that use the same avatar and cloth as the same issue

For making the toggle i found a work around. I had to use VRCFury to make a simple toggle for the object, but then “enable transition time” and just leave them blank but make sure the the box is checked on “reverse when disabled”