A few months ago , I used to show everyone’s avatar so I could see all their toggles . This proved to be a bad idea as I am on quest and my game is quite slow (it’s still very much usable though)
When you select a user by pointing at them, you can “Hide avatar globaly”, so the specific avatar you see, even if used by multiple pelple should be hidden. Hope this helps.
sorry I’m so late, but I should clarify I meant when I am not in an instance with them. (although I’m pretty sure there isn’t a way)