Quest Friends Can't see my avatar

Now I know what your thinking, duh its just a pc avatar. but here is the kicker. I am a standalone quest user i got an avatar commissioned for the first time a few days ago, It looks awesome I can wear it see it toggle everything just fine, but none of my other quest friends can see it. How come I can see it but they can’t, They tried making it visible and shielding it over and over but so far nothing has worked. HELP PLEASE