Can't see invites on vrchat app

Whenever I join vrchat I can see who’s on at the moment when I join but I can’t see if they invited me or if I send a request invite to them and they accept it I can’t see it or if someone sends me a friend request. I also can’t see if anyone got online or offline. I only have an oculus quest 2 and I have tried uninstalling and reinstalling vrchat many times it didn’t work. I have upgraded my account and then went to the notifications settings then pressed the push button and refreshed the page and that doesn’t work. This has been going on for a few weeks now and I’ve done everything I know so does anyone have any advice on what to do.