Invites and where frienda are not working

No matter what i do i dont get invites, join requests, and i cant see where people are unless i get off and back onto vrchat, ive tried reinstalling, turning push notifs on, rebooting headset etc, [ im on a quest 2 ]
It started working yesterday for a bit then quit working again after i crashed, can anyone help?

If anyone has a Solution for this problem I need help I am oculus user and have had this problem for almost an year.