Make More Fundraising To Help all kind of peoples

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hello, i would like to know if you would do more Fundraising for more organisation, it would be nice if you help all kind of people. you already do one for the trans community, I’m someone that dont want to see anybody suffer, and doing one for the trans is good, but i sincerly hope is not the only one you will help, maybe there the one that suffer the most today, but is not a reason to not help other people with there issue.

I’m also someone that want to defeat hate toward people Identity, if you look like you only care about the well being of one group only, you will create jealousy in the group you don’t help, and jealousy is sadly a factor for hate, you can fix some issue with money, but hate is not really something you can fix with money, no one will help people they hate, obviously.

everybody have issue, and will fix there problem first, and won’t help someone esle if there themself in a bad situation, especially if the other one won’t one way or in another help them back. I’m sure if in november, you do a fundraising for Movember, men will be more open to donate to the next funraising for trans people, show no care about Movember and they just gonna keep there money, rare are the people that want to sacrifice there well being for someone esle well being.

my only request is to help everybody, man, woman, lgbt or not lgbt, we will never create a better world by caring about one but not the other, make everybody feel like whoever who you are, there a place for you, as you say, thank you for listening.

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I get why you’re going for the “All Lives Matter” angle but I’m not sure you want to be digging up an almost decade old debate that has more holes than Swiss cheese.

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then i have i question, if someone think that youre life doesn’t matter, will you consider is life to matter? and is someone life should matter more or less, i should be base on is action, not is identity like sex, gender, skin color, or sexual orientation, ect, cause you don’t make the world better or worse with your identity alone.

if is stupid to consider that all live matter, don’t complain if some people don’t consider the one that you care to not matter, cause you’re doing the same.

let’s imagine a white man that discover the cure for the cancer, do you think he would like to see that people consider is life less or not valuable just for is identity.

a trans woman don’t want to reject her trans identity to be respected, she want to be what she is without being shame for that and that 100% understandable, and me, i dont want to trans myself just to be respecter the same way a trans dont want to detransition themself to be respected.

people should not have is life devalue over there identity, and yes, i believe that lgbt need help, but you wont get ally by devaluing the life of non lgbt for not being lgbt.

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I’m not sure this is the best place for you to get into culture war debates, and I don’t think your response shows an understanding of the issues deep enough to warrant a serious response.

If you truly have an open mind and heart, and want to acquire that depth and learn more about why what you’re suggesting is not as simple as you make it out to be, might I suggest reaching out to Trans Academy or other groups for resources to learn?

Otherwise, we’re all just going to be smartasses on the internet.

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if the issue is that we have limited ressource that giving it to people that dont need it would be a waste? yes, i understand.

and if i was stupid to ask vrchat to help everybody with fundraising? ok, no problem.

but for me, caring about other live is not just giving them money, is also make sure that they don’t feel devalue or threaten or it will probaly create a need for money.

let’s take rascism as an exemple, the minimum of caring about other life would be to consider it bad to be rascist against every race, if you decide that being rascist against one group is not rascism and then, not bad, you won’t punish people doing rascism against this group, making them feel unwanted, devalue, creating depresion and a insecurity feeling, the kind of thing that make you feel like your live don’t matter, and this is a problem that sadly exist today, affecting everybody, and can just be easely fix by just not doing double standard, alias punishing all kind of rascism.

if this double standard didn’t exist, i would never care about the vrchat fundraising, I’m a white man, I’m the one who being rascist against is consider okay, for a skin color i didn’t choose, and for the action of other people like me which i have no control over. sure, caring about lgbt don’t make you someone that don’t care about non lgbt, but sadly, i see a lot of them make me feel like my live don’t matter for not being lgbt, i just wanna know if vrchat is not one of them, cause i wont feel safe playing a game where the developper won’t care if i get attacked due to my identity the same way lgbt won’t feel safe in a game that don’t care about them.

you suggest me to reach trans academy, then i have some question about them, do they at least don’t disrespect other identity? and do they allow me to have some disagrement as long as is not straight up hate and talk about them? today, being consider a transphobe can put your life in danger, i have some disagrement, not because of hate, but because i feel these probaly some better alternative. If I’m allow to talk about them an argrue about them without being call a transphobe, i will think about it, if not, no thank. If I’m wrong about stuff, i prefer we explain me why i am than being call a bad person just for being wrong.

i have a brother that is a transman and my best friend is a transwoman, just having good time with them was enough for me to understand There is no problem with being trans and to understand what they go through.

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My experience with them is that they are kind, open-minded, and fair. Do note that being too intense or aggro can wear down the patience of all people no matter how patient, though.

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I’m Sorry if a look too intense or aggro, i would like to help the lgbt, but not at the expense of my well being, i feel like some of them want me to sacrifice my happyness for there well being, and refusing to sacrifice my well being make me a ennemy to destroy, making me feel like i don’t matter, creating a depresion in me.

luckily, i matter for my trans friend and brother, for them, I’m a very good friend that help them deal with there own depression, and for them, my well being matter too.

thank you to listensing to me event if i sound intense or aggro, i will think about your suggestion.