“What does a DM look like”
Starz, let’s be real-- VRChat already has a DM system: It’s called “Adding messages to invites” and people do it all the time, people will literally send invites JUST to send a message-- I’ve done it, I imagine you and others on the team have done in, I have friends who do it, many users do-- It’s just NOT the most efficient or well utilized system for it, because it’s not FOR that.
Literally all you need for a DM system, at least in it’s lightest form, is to just send those “Invites” without them actually being invites, they’re just messages with a cap limit that get stored in the notification section just like everything else that piles up there, like Group invites, friend requests, etc, etc.
“What about the additional moderation cost?”
You guys literally just dropped a feature that allows you to easily spray paint ANYTHING you want on a wall as long as it passes VRChats scanning process, one that (No offense) is already flawed for custom emojis safety, it definitely will have flaws for this systems-- You even made it more easily sharable, with an entirely new feature! Moderation costs, if they aren’t a concern there-- Should not be a concern here, or it needs to be a bigger concern for both and we can work out both issues.
“Where does it go?”
Into your notifications, the same place everything else goes, as was said earlier-- I literally have a new VRC+ tab in my QM-- We can add a DM tab to notifications lol.
“What does it look like?”
A message.
But really, if y’all want it to have flair, that would be a great system to add VRC+, features to, like sending emojis-- or maybe even implement parts of Boops back into them; that’s a team decision.
“Most of all: philosophically, is this something we want in VRChat?”
I always find this argument unsatisfying because: Why does it immediately need to impede face-to-face communication? It’s not like we’re asking for a smart phone, that literally distracts you while you’re hanging out with people-- It’s just a messaging system, again, akin to what people Already Use– If you’re afraid of that, messages likely shouldn’t be on invites in the first place, because that’s usually how they’re used.
It also overlooks all the people who are scared of people on Orange or Blue, either because they don’t want to request off of Orange status people, or because they don’t want to interrupt people on blue at a bad time (my usual case)-- We can finally just message first and ask if they’re free! Easy! It gives us a quick and easy way to establish an in person hangout, without the awkward process of sending a false invite to see if they’re free, or showing up unexpectedly when someone forgot their status was open.
Now, don’t get me wrong and think I’m saying “This would be easy, and have no negative side effects or complex issues and implementations!”. I’m not a VRC developer, and can’t and won’t say that-- I just think acting like the idea is so confusing or isolating of a prospect is a bit goofy to me personally-- It’s already being done in it’s lightest form possible, I don’t think it’s as impossible or disruptive a task as some make it out to be, and I think general moderation tools for players DMs will suffice in it being used correctly.
Again, text moderation is tough, but it’s not “Stop people from immediately abusing the ability to spray paint on any wall in any allowing world” difficult, I believe we could tackle it!